The Long And Winding Road

We reached an important bureaucratic milestone today. After some eight months of letters back and forth between us and the IND, we finally received word today of their decision to grant Sarah her application for a verblijfsvergunning (residence permit).

She’s been granted an initial period of one year, backdated to the date that the application was submitted. The bureaucratic road has been meandering for so long, that this means she has but four more months until the permit will need to be renewed. Exactly how much renewed bureaucracy will ensue at that time remains to be seen, but I’m hopeful that, once granted, the permit will be considerably easier to renew than it is to initially obtain.

Much, if not all, of the awkwardness in our case was caused by the fact that Sarah’s sponsor (that’s me, her husband) is unemployed. The IND is simply not set up to deal with applications from people whose sponsors are not working, a student, an au-pair, a man of the cloth, a diplomat, a foreign journalist, etc., etc.

Proving that I could ensure that Sarah would not be a burden on the Dutch state was thus not as easy as simply producing an employment contract. Instead, I had to show evidence of independent means. Things got an order of magnitude messier when, after demonstrating that I could financially support Sarah, the IND tried to disqualify our assets from consideration by pointing out that no Dutch tax had been paid on them. The fact that no Dutch tax was yet due on them seemed to them to be an irrelevant detail.

When I pointed out that they could not reasonably expect me to prove that I had paid tax that was not yet due and thus could not yet be paid, they conceded, but then immediately countered by demanding to see a copy of the 2004 tax return that I had filed whilst living in the US.

It’s a game of chess, you see? Since governmental departments are a monopoly (you can’t just go to a competitor and get a residence permit from them), you have no choice but to deal with them. And no matter how stupid and time-consuming each of their requests is, the only pragmatic course of action is to comply with it.

I don’t often recommend the path of least resistance, but where bureaucratic governmental departments are concerned, it’s the only sane choice. You see, each request with which you comply effective removes another chess piece from the board. Ultimately, after you have fulfilled each and every one of their requests, there will be nothing left to ask of you, except perhaps that you bring back a piece of the moon on your next trip.

Anyway, the whole process ultimately took so long that our 2005 taxes eventually did become due in The Netherlands. Predictably, the IND responded by requesting a copy of the filing, which I duly supplied. And with that manoeuvre, I captured their queen and put their king in checkmate. As I said, we’ll be having a rematch at the end of August.

So Sarah now has to wait for the local council to contact for with an appointment to pick up her shiny new residence permit. Once she has that, the whole process of inburgering will be just around the corner. They like to keep life interesting over here.

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Ruby/LDAP 0.9.5 released

Ruby/LDAP 0.9.5 has been released.

There are no actual changes or enhancements this time around. Rather, all of the work in this release went into getting the code to build and work on Windows platforms. Accordingly, this version should build and work straight out of the box on Windows systems. It’s been tested on Windows XP SP2, using SVC C++ 6.0 to build it.

If the code also works with other breeds of Windows and compiler, this will be a nice milestone to have reached, as the library has not worked on Windows since I took over maintenance of the code, somewhere back at the end of 2004, I think.

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Coffee Snob

No, I’m not really a coffee snob; honestly, I’m not. I like good coffee, yes, but I don’t bore people with endless talk of beans, roasting, grinding, etc. How could I? I’m no expert, so I’d sound like a complete idiot. Besides, when all is said and done, it’s still only a hot drink, right? I just appreciate drinking the stuff when the quality is good. There’s really nothing quite like the pleasure of a great cup of coffee.

In search of the ever better cuppa, I biked over to Brandmeester’s this afternoon to pick up the two Grand Cru coffees I ordered at the beginning of the month.

I picked up 125 g of each of Jamaican Blue Mountain and Puerto Rico Alto Grande. I’m really looking forward to trying each of these and discovering if they’re as good as they’re cracked up to be. Production of these coffees is limited, so they’re only available a few times per year by advance order. Sounds snobby, doesn’t it? I wonder if I’ll even be able to tell them apart from all of the other varieties I’ve recently drunk. We’ll soon see.

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Chunky Girl

At our latest visit to the Consultatiebureau, Eloïse weighed in at 9210 g. Her growth has slowed a little since our last visit, but that’s quite normal at this stage.

She now has more teeth breaking through, three or four of them on the upper jaw, but I can’t yet be sure of the number. They’re just starting to breach the surface of her gum.

She’s still not truly crawling, but is getting closer to doing so with each passing day. However, that’s not to say that she is immobile; she can drag herself around somewhat, but the rhythm of the true crawl still eludes her for the moment.

On the food front, she’s still being breastfed, of course, but in addition to that, she enjoys apple sauce, pureed carrot and mushed up prunes. She’s also very fond of beetroot, which turns her shit an alarming shade of burgundy. It pays to remember when she has recently eaten this particular root vegetable, lest you be beset by a moment of panic when removing a poopy nappy and discovering what momentarily resembles a haemorrhage.

Bedtime is almost invariably preceded by the reading of a couple of stories. Allemaal In De File and Nieuwsgierige Lotje are her current favourites; or perhaps they’re mine; I’m not sure.

This evening ended up being a late bedtime for her. Whilst she was playing on the floor just after having had Ik Wil De Maan and Over Een Kleine Mol Die Wil Weten Wie Er Op Zijn Kop Gepoept Heeft read to her, I noticed some blood on her index finger.

Blood always looks more serious than the actual cut that produces it, of course, so I wasn’t too worried, even though seeing my daughter’s blood for the first time definitely made me uncomfortable. Unfortunately, the placement of the cut made her want to pick at it with her thumb, so we had a devilish time getting it to stop bleeding. A sticky plaster was made short work of by her, so we had to resort to playing in the bath to distract her. That mostly stemmed the ooze, but Sarah had to eventually put her to bed in the hope that she would fall asleep quickly and thus not be tempted to play with it any more.

We just can’t figure out what caused the cut. My best guess is that she tugged on a page in her book and gave herself a paper cut. The cut is straight enough that this explanation seems plausible. There’s simply nothing else on the floor where she was playing. I was right there with her, too; I barely took my eyes off her the entire time.

Anyway, she wasn’t bothered about it at all, and just seemed rather frustrated and annoyed that these two big oafs were running around after her and delaying her being put to bed.

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Magic Carpet

We’ve been making some good progress of late on furnishing the house.

Some time ago, we decided that it would be nice to place a Persian carpet in the sitting room. We then held off on purchasing furniture for that room, because we needed to see what kind of carpet we would eventually buy. After all, such a carpet would set the whole tone of the room and the rest of the furniture would have to be chosen with that in mind.

Unfortunately, because we had a strong suspicion that it would take us forever to decide on a carpet, we found it all too easy to constantly postpone going out and even looking for one. We also needed a rather large carpet, 4 m × 3& m, which we knew would mean we wouldn’t have much choice in the small shops in and around Amsterdam.

Then came a recommendation from one of our favourite furniture shops to try I.C.E. Oosterse Tapijten in Waardenburg, so we drove the 70 km or so along the A2 yesterday to see what they had to offer. We were not disappointed.

A couple of hours later, we’d picked out five quite striking carpets as candidates for our living room. We made an appointment with I.C.E. to bring them to us Friday morning so that we could look at each one in its prospective surroundings.

An hour or so later, we’d picked one of the five to spend the next several decades gracing the floor of our living room. I.C.E. fitted an anti-slip undermat to keep the carpet in place and then left, taking the four runners-up with them. A genuinely frightening invoice will be winging its way to me within the next few days. On the other hand, every time I think of how much it cost, I just glance over at it and am immediately forced to admit to myself once again that it truly is a stunning work of art.

I have an armchair in mind for that room now, so Sarah and I went out Friday afternoon to see if we could find a couch that would look good with the carpet and that chair. We think we’ve found one, but we need to shop around a bit more before committing to purchasing it. To complete the room, we’re thinking of purchasing a couch, two armchairs and a glass coffee table. We’ll probably add a sideboard of some kind, too. We’ve already seen a couple of nice coffee tables, but we’re looking for one with a wooden frame, as Eloïse is sure to bash her head against it at some point.

So what else have we done on the house lately?

Well, we finally ordered some dining-room chairs to go with the table we purchased a few months ago. I’ve lost track of how many shops we had to visit before finally settling on a model at a local shop. Again, they’re an expensive set of chairs, from the Maxalto collection, but the quality is superb. Not only do they look great, but — most importantly, of course — they are extremely comfortable. It’s essential to me to be able to spend hours at a time at the dining room table, because, for me, that’s the focal point of the main living area during the day. I like to relax there, read the paper and drink coffee. Many dining-room chairs are comfortable enough to enjoy a meal, but don’t stand the test of prolonged sitting. Anyway, we ordered them in brown oak with reddish brown leather upholstery.

In the name of security, we’ve also had all of the glass panels at the back of the house replaced with break-in-resistant glass. This will hopefully deter future break-in attempts. If not, it will certainly retard their progress. We’re also planning to add some motion-detector activated lights that will be turned on if someone trespasses in the garden. Speaking of the garden, we need to turn our attention to that now, too. It looks rather spartan and dull at the moment.

Our foyer now has a beuatiful old lamp to illuminate it. It really adds character to the entrance. Unfortunately, we were unable to hang up the lights we had purchased for the downstairs hallway and the bedroom, because the light fittings in those places were unable to hold the weight. One of those lights is now in a box in the cellar, whilst the other has been returned to the antique shop for a refund. It would be a lot of work to alter the fittings so that there is a cross-beam above them to support the weight and now is not really the time for us.

Owning a home and furnishing it with carefully chosen items of high quality is actually hard work, we’ve discovered. Obviously, however, the reward is proportional to the amount of work you put in.

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