All Right, My Lover

Q: Where can you buy curry powder, a bass guitar, a carpet and a pair of rubber wellies, all under one roof?

A: Trago Mills.

Trago’s has been around since I was a kid. Nothing has quite the same longevity or timeless appeal as discounted old tat.

Whereas many of the shops along Falmouth’s main street have succumbed to the forces of time, Trago’s is still going, and going stronger than ever, it would appear.

The weather has kept us from doing any major sightseeing over the last few days, so we’ve more or less shuttled between Falmouth and Truro, with excursions as far afield as Ponsanooth., Helston and even lovely little Helford.

Tim took us onto Culdrose helicopter base last Friday for an hour on the Merlin simulator. That was a lot of fun.

I managed to land the thing on an aircraft-carrier, but unfortunately only by crashing into its deck. Sarah crashed, too, so we won’t be put in charge of one of these things any time soon.

Today is our last day in Cornwall. Tomorrow, we drive back along the route we came in on, to get to the Welsh capital of Cardiff. Strange as it may seem, I’ve never been to Wales before, so this will actually notch up another country.

After two nights in Cardiff, we’ll drive to Fishguard, take the ferry to Rosslare in Ireland and then head north to Kilquade in County Wicklow (Contae Chill Mhantáin).

Our time in Cornwall has been great, in spite of the weather. If we’d been here merely as tourists, it wouldn’t have been much fun, but we came mainly to see Fenella and the family, so it hasn’t really mattered how bad the weather got (and it’s been pretty bad).

It’s always thought-provoking to visit this county, the place where I grew up. It’s at once familiar, yet now so far removed from my life as to be essentially a strange, new place to visit.

And that’s how it feels to be here: strange; genuinely foreign. There’s no sense of having come home; just a peculiar feeling of powerful déjà vu; as if I’m looking at buildings and scenes from a vividly recalled dream. None of it feels very real to me; it’s just a strange apparition of a life lived long ago.

We’ve driven past two houses in Falmouth that I used to live in, plus one in Penryn, one in Flushing and one in Truro. We could have gone to another in Redruth, but didn’t. There are yet more of my former homes, in Portreath, Threemilestone, Goran Haven and Mevagissey, but I have no idea of the addresses. Eloïse has been very interested in her papa’s old homes, bless her.

My family certainly did move around a lot.

The traffic is horrendous these days, especially in Truro. Parking has become difficult, with demand far outstripping supply; and very expensive, too. On top of that, the ticket machines don’t accept credit cards and many car parks are of the pay-and-display variety, which means that you almost always end up paying for more time than you actually use. £4.80, I had to pay yesterday for a couple of hours in a multi-storey in Truro. Times have changed.

Most of all, it’s odd to retread cobblestones and pavement that I once trod underfoot whilst holding my grandmother’s hand, or whilst accompanying my grandfather on an errand. One almost expects them to emerge at any moment from one of the shops, frozen in time, looking just the way they did in the late seventies or early eighties.

Yes, being here really prickles the senses in ways that are not quite predictable or communicable. It’ll obviously always be part of me, even though I long since ceased to be part of it.

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Ruby/AWS 0.4.0 Released

It’s been pouring with rain here all day, so I seized the opportunity to knock out a quick release of Ruby/AWS.

Version 0.4.0 allows the user to retrieve existing shopping-carts from AWS using the new Amazon::AWS::ShoppingCart::Cart#cart_get method. I hadn’t originally implemented this method, because I considered it unnecessary in view of the fact that shopping-cart state was already maintained in Cart objects. Should these objects cease to exist, however, there was no way to resurrect the object from AWS’s servers. That has now been remedied.

This version also requests the newest version of the Amazon AWS API, namely 2008-06-26 and fixes a bug in the Amazon::AWS::ShoppingCart::Cart#cart_modify method.

As of this release of the software, I consider Ruby/AWS to be in beta. In other words, you may now consider it fit for non-critical use. It had been that way since version 0.3.0, really, but I was being cautious.

If you’re a user of the remote shopping-cart functionality, you should upgrade.

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1000 km Later

Well, we’ve made it as far as Penryn, having travelled about 1000 km thus far. We drove from Amsterdam to Calais (via Bruges) on the first day, then made the tunnel crossing to Folkestone the next morning and continued on to Henley-on-Thames.

Our one day with Lucy and her daughter, Lottie, was rendered more eventful than expected when Lucy accidentally locked us all out of her house. It would take a good five hours and eventually the help of a locksmith before we made it back into the house.

The visit was a lot of fun, however. The next morning, we walked into Henley where preparations for the famous regatta were in full swing. The town was bustling and the weather was beautiful.

After lunch and saying our goodbyes, we headed out in the car to Reading, where we joined the M4 and began on the long drive to Cornwall. Lucas’s crying forced us to stop multiple times in quick succession early in the journey, but after filling up with petrol somewhere near Swindon, Sarah boobed him back to sleep; a state he miraculously remained in for the remainder of the drive.

We had expected to have to break the journey into a couple of legs, with the second one coming after dinner, but Lucas’s long sleep meant that we were able to arrive at Fenella and Tim’s house at 19:00; after a little over four hours on the road. Once the M5 ends at Exeter, there’s now dual carriageway pretty much all the way down to Truro, which drastically reduces the driving time. I couldn’t believe how quickly we made it down to this neck of the woods.

Today’s been an easy day. We visited Cameron and Willow’s school and even attended a school play performance of the Pirates of Penzance; although I had to leave early with Eloïse when she’d had enough. We played in the playground instead.

Prior to going to the school play, we spent some time in Truro, stopping to enjoy a traditional Cornish pasty and make the obligatory detour to Marks & Spencer for Sarah.

It’s always very strange to return to Cornwall, due in no small part to the infrequency with which I do so. Every time I come back, I’m surprised by the things that have changed, but equally surprised by the things that have remained the same. The streets seem to grow narrower with each passing visit, but in reality, only my perception of them has changed.

This is my first visit since 2001, but I left Cornwall in 1986, when I was just 19. A lot of water has flowed under the bridge since then. Last time I was in Cornwall, I had no children and wasn’t married. In fact, it was on that same trip that Sarah and I got engaged.

Part of me is inextricably linked with this place, albeit it in a different era; a time so far removed, it feels like a previous life, not even my own. Something deep within me is stirring while I’m here, but it’s exceedingly difficult to give it a voice.

We haven’t planned our next move yet and are content to just stay here and enjoy the peaceful surroundings and good company. Eloïse is really enjoying spending time with her cousins and even Lucas seems more relaxed than usual, which is really saying something.

Fenella and Tim, don’t worry if you’re reading this: We will leave eventually.

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Big Man

At the Consultatiebureau a few days ago, Lucas weighed in at 6320 g, with a length of 61 cm and a head circumference of 41.4 cm. He’s well on the way to doubling his birth weight, which was 3500 g.

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Leaving Tomorow

Tomorrow’s the big day, the start of our holiday. Today is therefore, as you might imagine, the day of the final preparations:

  • Printing out hotel and travel bookings.

  • Having all recently arrived CDs ripped and on my personal audio player.

  • Making sure there are enough CDs in the car; and that they’re the right ones.

  • Making sure enough children’s television programmes are on the hard drive of my laptop.

  • Charging the camera batteries, the personal audio player, etc. Also, gathering all of our chargers and plug adapters together.

  • Mounting the baby mirror in the car, so that the driver can see Lucas, even though he’s facing away.

I’ve already purchased new hiking shoes and had my hair cut, so I’m more or less ready. My office still needs a long overdue whirl to clear my desk and I have photos from yesterday’s play-school party in the Amsterdamse Bos to upload.

One way or another, I’m sure it will end up being a late night, even if I work all day to try to prevent it.

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